Recommended safety guidelines for all members

There are certain precautions everyone should take to make sure the experience is safe, as well as fun. We at free Christian dating site always make sure our members are protected and your email address and other details never be exposed to any members.

Its always good to take a look at our safety guidelines.

1) Pick a username that bears no similarity to your real name, and don’t use a sexy or provocative moniker if that’s not the sort of date you’re trying to attract. Calling yourself “SexyLegs77” is likely to grab the attention of people who aren’t after marriage and a white picket fence.

2) Don’t give out personal information to members. Never give your real name to members until you are confident with the person and be sure not to give out details like your home address, email address or telephone numbers. You don’t want someone you met briefly showing up unexpectedly at your door.

3) If you really connect with a particular person, ask to see several photos of them, in different situations. This helps ensure that the person really is who they’re claiming to be. At the very least, you’ll find out if their profile picture was taken 25 years ago.

4) Take everything you read on our dating site profiles with a grain of salt. Some people lie about more than their age or weight. This can range from the married pretending to be single, to predators and scam artists looking for victims. And, to protect your good dating karma, don’t lie yourself. You might think it’s harmless, but you’ll eventually be found out, and it could damage your potential romance.

5) Don’t let anyone rush you, and follow your instincts. If someone pressures you to reveal your name, where you live, or to tries to convince you to meet them before you feel ready, listen to your gut, and say no.

6) If you decide to correspond with someone outside our dating site, use an anonymous email account that you use specifically for dating. That way, if things go wrong and you decide to stop contact, you won’t have to get a completely new email address and go through the hassle of letting family and friends know. Similarly, make sure you mask your phone number if you decide to get to know each other by telephone.

7) Before you agree to meet, get to know your date really well. And just as you shouldn’t let anyone rush you, don’t rush yourself. Take the time to learn about each other and you’ll have a much better chance of hitting it off in “real” life.

8) Take sensible precautions when you do meet in person. Bring along a friend, meet in a well-lit public place, and make sure someone knows where you are, and when you’re expected back. Take along a cell phone and make sure you have some extra money for the transport.

9) Don’t give your date your full name or address until you’ve met them a number of times and really feel you can trust them. Remember that while online correspondence may breed familiarity, you’re still meeting with a relative stranger.

Remember there are also plenty of genuine, nice people who are looking for the same things you are. Follow our safety guidelines, listen to your own instincts, and you might just meet the love of your life online.